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Self-disclosure is seen as a useful strategy for sharing information
with others. By sharing information, we become more intimate with
other people and our interpersonal relationship is strengthened.
Read about self-disclosure and then complete the learning activity
and take a short quiz to test your understanding of the concept.
| Definition |
Self-disclosure is not simply providing information to another
person. Instead, scholars define self-disclosure as sharing information
with others that they would not normally know or discover. Self-disclosure
involves risk and vulnerability on the part of the person sharing
the information. |
| The Johari Window |
A useful way of viewing self-disclosure is the Johari window7. The Johari window is a way of showing how much information you
know about yourself and how much others know about you. The window
contains four panes, as shown below.
| Known to self | Unknown to self |
| Known to others | Open Pane known to self and others | Blind Pane blind to self, seen by others |
| Unknown to others | Hidden Pane open to self, hidden from others | Unknown Pane unknown to self and others |
The Open Pane includes information such as hair colour, occupation, and physical
appearance. The Blind Pane includes information that others can see in you, but you cannot
see in your self. You might think you are poor leader, but others
think you exhibit strong leadership skills. The Hidden Pane contains information you wish to keep private, such as dreams
or ambitions. The Unknown Pane includes everything that you and others do not know about yourself.
You may have hidden talents, for example, that you have not explored.
Through self-disclosure, we open and close panes so that we may
become more intimate with others. |
| Functions of Self-Disclosure |
Self-disclosure performs several functions. It is a way of gaining
information about another person. We want to be able to predict
the thoughts and actions of people we know. Self-disclosure is
one way to learn about how another person thinks and feels. Once
one person engages in self-disclosure, it is implied that the
other person will also disclose personal information. This is
known as the norm of reciprocity. Mutual disclosure deepens trust
in the relationships and helps both people understand each other
more. You also come to feel better about yourself and your relationship
when the other person accepts what you tell them. |
| Risks of Self-Disclosure |
While there are several advantages to self-disclosure, there are
also risks. One risk is that the person will not respond favourably
to the information. Self-disclosure does not automatically lead
to favourable impressions. Another risk is that the other person
will gain power in the relationship because of the information
they possess. Finally, too much self-disclosure or self-disclosure
that comes too early in a relationship can damage the relationship.
Thus, while self-disclosure is useful, it can also be damaging
to a relationship. |
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